The one little problem I have, is my two year old! He really likes to run, throw himself on the floor and climb on things! So, it's a little tough bringing him to events like this. I was a little afraid they'd throw us out after he picked a big flower off of a display! My mother, who raised 10 children of her own, wisely suggested I leave my little monkey at home. I was really torn between wanting to have a good time with the girls, and wanting to show the baby new things and expose him to events where he needs to learn a little discipline and self-control.
The day went fairly well, but there were a few points where I heard people moan a bit when my little one was misbehaving and yes, I did catch a few "eye rolls"! So, do you take the little ones out in public to teach them how to behave or wait until you think they're old enough to behave properly?
Today I found some good advice in an article by Rachel Lister. She talked about ways to prepare your toddler for a trip out without public meltdowns. She says kids really need transitions between activities, so be sure to talk with them about what you're doing and what comes next. Lister says to use incentives for good behavior. (I always offer a treat when they're good! Bribery works wonders!) There were a couple of good points I should have followed. Lister reminds us that tired toddlers are unpredictable. (I did take him out during naptime.) And make sure the kids are fed. They're less grouchy!
So, next time I think I will take all three kids to the flower show, but maybe I'll schedule it after nap time and pack lots of snacks! I'm sure I'll still get some "eye rolls"!
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