Parenting Perspective: Homework headaches

April 20, 2010

It usually consists of some math equations, some vocabulary or spelling assignments and some reading. Sometimes it seems too much for him - or is it? How much homework should an 8-year-old be required to do and how long should it take?

Nicholas' teacher says his assignments should never take longer than 20 minutes. But every now and then it does - in fact sometimes it can take all night... but mostly because of procrastination.

According to the U.S. Department of Education, it is up to parents to determine early if our kids have a homework problem. Not only that, but teachers must keep parents informed long before a report card reveals our child is having difficulties.

Yet in most cases, the observant parent can detect a problem before the teacher does. Another issue is whether or not the child is bored with homework assignments or finds them too hard or too easy. We as parents also have a responsibility to alert the teacher about this. Although most teachers don't have time to tailor homework to the needs of each student.

There are various resources online to help parents to successfully support their child's homework efforts. Here are a few that I've found especially helpful.

    1. Eliminate as many distractions as possible during study time.
    2. Encourage your child to establish a regular time to do homework. It may help avoid procrastination.
    3. Be a role model. Read a book or newspaper while your child studies.
    4. Praise your child for successfully completing his or her homework.
Finally, it's important to remember that homework is your child's responsibility - not the parent's. And now is the time to give it to him or her. While we don't want to seem unsupportive, the more help we give your child now, the more helpless they may become.

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