Pediatrician Dr. Robert Needleman says children between the ages of 18 months and four years are ripe for learning about household jobs. "That's because this age group is so enthusiastic about being like (and being liked by) their parents - the most important people in their worlds. The trick is finding chores that young children are able to do."
At my house, it was easy. For the past year, Luke has often offered to clean windows and countertops. Perhaps he likes the spray bottle. He enjoys it so much that it becomes a treat, not a chore. The other day, I actually caught myself saying, "Luke, if you finish all your broccoli, I'll let you clean the windows."
What I would do if this enthusiasm lasts though the teenage years!
Emma isn't as motivated to clean, but at 2-1/2, she's the little organizer. She loves to put things in the proper place (she certainly doesn't get that trait from me!) So, her "chore" is making sure the shoes in the mudrooms are all lined up and put away. Like all our family members, Luke and Emma both have to make their own beds each morning (with a little assistance) and clear their plates after meals.
Teaching preschoolers household jobs, does take patience. Often, I'd rather wash the dishes myself than endure the drawn-out, soapy and wet process when Emma or Luke wash dishes. But I try to resist taking over and drop my expectations for spotless dishes.
Your house may not look perfect when your little ones are helping out, but chores show children that they are valuable members of a household and help teach them responsibility. And, at least for now, Luke and Emma are happy to help out.
Happy parenting!
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