My kids would be great dictators. Even my three year old is able to articulate exactly what he does and does not want and at what time he wants it: NOW! Now that they have that down pat, I'd like to teach them how to behave like normal, respectful children!
Something tells me this is going to be a lifelong battle.
It's time to redo my girls bedroom and they were very quick with their firm ideas about what they like. I started going crazy trying to please everyone and the process was taking way too much time.
Then I decided since I'm paying for it, I get the final vote! It made my life a lot easier.
I let them pick the colors they liked and the overall style. I found a great comforter on the sale rack and made the executive decision to not look any further. I want them to be more involved in the work in the house, and since they love to paint, we're all painting together this weekend.
Even if it is not perfect, I think it's great the kids are getting involved. They were initially "less than thrilled" with my selection on the comforter, but I think they are getting the idea that they do not actually rule the house!
I browsed online and found a few interesting tidbits.
Kelly Nault wrote an article entitled, "Parents Taking Control of Young Children's Behavior". According to Nault, you shouldn't try to control your children, but rather, control your own actions. I hadn't really thought of that before, but I think it makes sense.
Instead of arguing with my kids over who should decide things, I simply made the decision taking their thoughts and feelings in account. It sets a great example for future situations that may be more serious than decorating a room!
Read more Parenting Perspective blogs by visiting the Parenting Channel on 6abc.com.
