Gary Cramer of Bridgeton and the women are each charged with aggravated sexual assault and child endangerment. The women's names have not been released to protect the children.
Authorities allege Cramer solicited a 20-year-old woman from Winslow Township to photograph an 8-year-old girl perform oral sex on a 13-year-old boy.
The 26-year-old also is accused of getting a 24-year-old Woodbine woman to videotape herself performing oral sex on her 5-month-old son.
Cramer and the Winslow woman are each held on $200,000 bail. The Woodbine woman is held on $300,000.
It's not clear if the suspects have retained lawyers.