Ruzan Badalyan says deciding her son's best destiny was the "hardest moment" of her life. She took to Facebook to defend herself after her ex-husband Samuel Forrest shared his side of the story with ABC News this week.
"I remember the sad faces of my relatives and the doctors and the diagnosis that sounded like a verdict: 'Your child was born with a Down syndrome.' One can never imagine my feelings at that moment," Badalyan wrote in a Facebook post. "Hardly had I recovered from the first shock, when the doctor approached me and told me to voice my decision whether I was going to keep Leo or not. I had to make the most ruthless decision in my life within several hours."
Forrest said that his wife gave him an ultimatum: if he chose to keep the baby, she would divorce him. Badalyan says that wasn't the case.
Badalyan says she felt she only had two options, to try to take care of Leo in her native Armenia or let him have a decent life with his father in New Zealand.
She said that Forrest accepted that their son's interest should be first and that "only his move to another country could remedy the situation," but that he later left the hospital with Leo without notifying her.
"In the hardest moment of my life when my husband should be next to me and support and help to take the right decision, I could not find any support from his side," she wrote. "After that incident, he left the hospital notifying me hours later that he was taking the kid with him, that he is going to leave the country for New Zealand and I do not have anything to do with the situation. Without giving me any option and trying to find with me any solution in this hardest situation, he started to circulate the story on every possible platform without even trying to give me a voice accusing that I put him an ultimatum marriage or the baby, which is absolutely not true. I tried several times to communicate but he never tried to listen me and to find common solutions. The only response was the accusation from his part."
Forrest, who plans to take Leo to his native New Zealand, said Badalyan filed for divorce one week after Leo's birth.
"As a mother who has faced this severe situation, being in the hospital under stress and depression, experiencing enormous pressure from every side, not finding any support from my husband's part on any possibilities of giving a child decent life in Armenia, I faced two options: to take care of the child on my own in Armenia, or to abandon my maternal instincts and extend the baby an opportunity to enjoy a decent life with his father in New Zealand. I went for the second option," Badalyan wrote.
A GoFundMe page was set up to help Forrest provide for his son. It has raised nearly $500,000.
Read the full article at ABCNews.com.